Things I’m Into (June 2017)

I am a Bon vivant of technology. That’s really just a fancy way of saying that I like tech and do what I can to obtain it. I enjoy experiencing new technology or refined versions of existing tech. I love talking about it and sharing it with others.

During a meeting earlier today I was asked about why I had a PC laptop instead of a Mac which is what I had in my last meeting with this client only a few months ago. A few hours later I was explaining to another client why I think tablets are useless devices. We also discussed the change in social norms in regards to use of certain technologies in different situations. It’s all very interesting to me.

In my private journaling, I sometimes make note of my current interests or of information I am currently consuming, but I don’t often enough because I am used to sharing things like this publically through social media. The continued problem I have with social media is how challenging it is to find past information posted to them. It is much easier to search a website when you need to reference something posted in the past. This is why I am wanting to share more about my current likes on my blog. I hope you find it interesting.

Quote of the Month:

Summer:

This is the first year I have felt in “summer mode” in ages. Since my kids are now in school, Summer is the time in which we have the freedom to take a vacation and get out of town more often. We spent a few days down south visiting family and going to a water park. Next month we will go camping for a week. It has been hot in Modesto, but I’m glad it’s summer time.

Let's slide!

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I have a 7 Year Old:

My oldest turned 7 this month. That excites and scares me at the same time. He is getting big and is becoming his own person. He is exploring what he likes and learning quickly what he dislikes. He can act so grown up at times, but still, can play like a little kid. These are excellent times I live in.

Too hot for fun.

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Eating Better:

It’s been years since I have consumed unhealthy foods in a consistent manner, but I have had a problem with consuming unhealthy amounts of food. I don’t want to label it a compulsion, but maybe it is at times. I found myself eating what was on my plate and clearing out whatever my kids didn’t eat. I would snack in the evening after my kids went to bed. Every breakfast was at Starbucks or Jamba Juice. I picked up a Smart Scale and have been tracking my weight. I am big into metrics. Without data, I can not make change in my life. Tracking something as simple as my weight gives me the strength to stop eating when I have had enough.

Weezer!

I have been a Weezer fan since the Blue Album dropped during my teen years. Though I have been a loyal fan over the past 17 years, I have never seen them live. That changed last weekend. It was a good show. Wish I had been able to see them in their earlier years. Also, Weezer is best experienced with good friends.

Weezer + some other bands!

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Also, you should dance like somebody sitting near you is filming it.

Guy dancing and not giving any fs.

Blade of the MonthBenchmade Hidden Canyon Hunter: I love this small fixed blade knife. It came with a horizontal carry leather sheath. I was not sure if I would like a fixed blade knife since I enjoy the deployment aspect of a folding knife. I find myself desiring to carry this knife more often because of it’s style and utility.

This @FlatTailBrewing #ElGuapo is delightful. Refreshing, yet cuts.

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Apps:

I don’t explore the app marketplace as much as I used to. For several years I wrote about apps and reviewed them online professionally. I may have burned myself out. During any given month I do happen across an app or two that does add value to my life. It may be a new productivity tool or a fun game to escape to for a few minutes when I have time. Here is what I’m using this month.

Any.do – This task management app actually does reminders really well, especially on Android. I use Trello for task management because I like being able to move tasks through a process as I work on them but I need something more in my face when it comes to reminders. Any.do does this well. I did sign up for Any.do Premium because that allows for recurring reminders to be added. As I continue to try and use my Google Home device more, I may change how I handle reminders, but for now, Any.do is where it’s at.

RobinHood – I have been taking Stockmarket Investing more serious over the last year. I like being able to manage it myself and without paying fees. I like what RobinHood has done in this space. I started by spending spare change in the app purchasing a few stocks here and there for around $5.00. We just recently paid off both of our vehicles so now I plan to put what was a car payment into the stock market each month. RobinHood is an app I spend a few moments in every day as I check on my current holdings and explore stocks for further purchase. RobinHood is free to join and if you want to try it, use the following link to sign up and RobinHood will give you a free stock: http://share.robinhood.com/jeradh

Technology

Sony a9 – I recently purchased the latest mirrorless innovation from Sony, the Alpha a9 camera. In this camera, Sony fixed some of the gripes I had with their a7 line of cameras and I was eager to try it out. Though I am not a fan of the price compared to what I paid for my Sony a7rII, I have found it’s new features to be valuable to me in moments where I need to act fast to get the shot. I have always invested in camera gear that allows me to do my job better.

Sony a9.

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Samsung Galaxy S8 Plus – After spending most of 2016 on the Android platform, I switched back to Apple for a short while earlier this year. It was not long before I was regretting my decision and decided to return to the Samsung Galaxy S8 Plus. The battery life is amazing on this phone and I like the taller screen which allows for more content. I also recently discovered SideSync which allows me to access everything from my phone on my computer. That means responding to text messages, file sharing, using apps, checking voicemail, and so much more. I always ran back to Apple because their product echosystem is well put together, but there are still a lot of limitations there. SideSync is not perfect, but it does much more than allow you to use Messages on your Mac to respond to text messages you get on your phone.

Dell XPS 15 9560 – I also spent a lot of time last year chasing the perfect laptop. It was hard to find that in the world of PC. I tried last years Dell XPS 15 but there were a few issues I had with it. Those issues were fixed in this years version of the XPS 15. Dell’s XPS line is a beautiful design. The display is gorgeous and the build of the laptop is nice. The display bezels are tiny which gives you more screen than most other laptops of the same size offer. The 4K display also has a wider color gamut than anything else on the market which is important for me as a Photographer. It has an SD Card slot which most other companies are omitting these days, also important for a Photographer who hates carrying unneccesarry adapters. Lastly, it has a pretty powerful graphics card which assists in faster video rendering. Since I am filming most things in 4K now, more power is needed and that is why I am using a Windows PC and not an Apple MacBook Pro.

Reading:

I used to read a lot but have allowed distractions to prevent me from opening a book. Sometimes I just don’t have a book with me when I have free time so I pull out my phone. I have started carrying my Kindle Oasis with me again so I can read distraction free. Having the Kindle app on my phone allows for too many distractions and notifications to get in the way.

12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You – I preordered this book on Amazon after seeing a tweet about it. I am very much into the way technology is changing us, especially in regards to how it affects us spiritually. I am 3/4 through this book and have found it to be very enlightening. I may even write a review of the book which is something I haven’t done in years.

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life – As I continue to get older I find myself more and more interested in the brain and how it works. I also am very interested in how and why I make decisions the way I do and how I can improve the way I process everything I come in contact with both internally and externally.

New Morning Mercies – A Daily Gospel Devotional – My wife and I purchased this book last year at a conference but I did not start reading it until this year. I’m currently getting into a devotion about once a week, but have recently set a reminder on my phone using Anydo to prod me each day to get into it. So far its helping.

Conclusion:

It was hard to keep this post short considering it is the first of it’s kind. I am going to try to do a post like this monthly, perhaps I should set a reminder right now in Any.do. If you find it interesting, let me know. Please understand that the links I provided to actual products are Amazon Affiliate links. I decided to blog on the topic of the things I like because I wanted an ongoing record of what I am doing, not to make a profit from it. Affiliate links do help pay the bills though, so if you want to explore something furthur, click away. I have always enjoyed sharing publically about different aspects of my life, so posting like this here on my blog just makes sense to me.

Next month’s post will likely have a lot of camping related likes. Every time we go camping I learn a lot and discover new things I want to try and explore with my kids.

It’s summer friends, go out and explore!

Grace, but not all the time. A Parenting Blog

A couple of weeks ago I was reminded of a book from my childhood called “The Little Red Hen.” In the story, the Hen invites his friends to help her bake a cake, but her friends are too lazy to help her. At the end of the book, the lazy friends wanted to share in the hard work of the Hen, but the Hen decided not to share and enjoyed the fruits of her labor while her friends stood there in shock.

We live in a world where everybody expects something for nothing. It didn’t become that way overnight. It’s the way many have been raised. You work hard at something and people are quick to expect you to share it with them when they didn’t do anything to deserve it. You can blame it on the way Baby Boomers raised their kids, but as an adult, I take responsibility for myself and what I expect from this world. I don’t want this post to turn political, but fewer people are trying to make something of themselves these days because they simply don’t have to.

We exercise a lot of grace with our children, probably too much at times. When demonstrated properly, Grace is an amazing thing. It shows the recipient that though they did nothing to deserve what they are receiving, they are given it because of love. We love our kids so it makes sense to pour out grace to them whenever possible. Grace is cool because it is not something that can be earned. If it was, it would be a reward.

What I love most about the book “The Little Red Hen,” is the unexpected ending. Reading through the book you realize that the cat, dog, and mouse are being lazy. What you don’t expect is that the Hen ends up eating the cake all to herself while her friends stand there with their jaws on the floor.

The Little Red Hen Book
The Little Red Hen doing work while her friends were being lazy.

Last night I had my wife and kids around me as I read the book. My wife remembered the book, but not how the story would end. When the Hen decided to withhold grace from her friends, my wife and kids had the same “jaw on the floor” expressions as the cat, dog, and mouse did. The Little Red Hen is an old story. It was adapted from an old folk tale most likely made up to teach kids about pitching in.

The Little Red Hen Book
The Little Red Hen eating her cake while her lazy friends watch.

The response my wife and kids had to the story was what I had expected. Most stories have a happy ending, and in this story, they expected that the Hen would have given her friends grace and allowed them to eat her cake. That just didn’t happen, and I love that it didn’t happen.

The story ends with the Hen’s friends being more than willing to help because they want to eat next time. It’s kind of a harsh story by today’s standards, but I think it’s just what the world needs. There is a time for grace and there is a time for a lesson.

The cool thing about grace is that it is not something you can earn. In life, when you do good, you usually get rewarded. When you do bad, you often get punished. At least that is the way we expect it. When you receive grace, you are receiving it out of the loving heart of the one offering it to you. This is why grace is so significant and why it shouldn’t be misused. Judgment and reward are something you earn, grace is something unearned.

I want my kids to be able to recognize grace when it is handed down to them. I do believe that grace is something that is handed down to you, and it can come in many forms. I only know this because I have received it, and recognize that the grace I received was unearned (insert spiritual undertones here). Grace is something that is unmerited. You get grace because someone wants you to have something you didn’t or couldn’t earn on your own. Kids need a lot of grace because they are learning their way in this world. However, I believe that there is a limit to the amount of grace we should pour out to our children and not allow ourselves to get too carried away. I don’t want to get into a discussion about what would be considered an act of grace and what doesn’t, but I do believe there are limits, and I think that we as parents have blurred the line between what giving grace is and what constitutes as enabling.

What do you think about this book? Have you read it? Was it read to you as a child? I think it’s a fantastic book and I love that my kids enjoyed it. They need to know that life is not a free ride. They need to understand that hard work pays off. I want to make sure that what they see in me is a person who works hard and that they are able to recognize when grace is given to them, whether it comes from my wife and me, or God.